Do You—But Don’t Drag Us With You”

By MedXpressionz

We’ve all had those moments where someone’s choices start spilling into our space and it is uninvited, unwanted, and unnecessary. And it takes everything in us not to step out of character and remind them: just because you made your choice doesn’t mean I signed up for it.

Let’s be real for a second.

If you choose to live your life a certain way, whether that’s messy, chaotic, toxic, or self-destructive that’s your right. You don’t owe the world an explanation, just like the world doesn’t owe you agreement or applause. But where the line gets drawn is when people start knocking on your door, trying to hand you the same chaos they’ve grown comfortable in.

That’s where many of us are right now.

You’re trying to stay focused. Mind your business. Heal. Elevate. Keep your spirit clear and your circle strong. But here comes somebody with their dysfunction, trying to gift-wrap it like it’s a blessing. Nah. We don’t need that energy. If it worked for you, cool silly but don’t assume it works for me.

And that goes for all of it, every drop, drama, bad habits, warped thinking, fake “wisdom” you barely understand yourself. Don’t push your coping mechanisms on other people and call it enlightenment. Don’t bring your “crack” to my porch and tell me it’s salvation just because it gave you a temporary high. You made a choice, and so did I and I’m choosing peace.

Here’s the lesson:

✅ Do you. Please at your own expense.

✅ Live your truth. However it sounds but don’t invoice the rest of us.

✅ Preach what you’ve practiced not what you’ve barely survived.

✅ And please, please check yourself before you come checking others.

We take what God allows us to survive, and sometimes instead of being grateful, we weaponize it. We throw it back at Him, twist the lesson, and project it onto others. But every breakthrough isn’t meant to be broadcast. Every trial doesn’t make you a teacher. Sometimes the assignment was only about you.

So keep your clarity. Guard your peace. And most of all, don’t let someone else’s storm set up camp in your front yard.

We’re not judging over here. But we’re also not volunteering to carry weight we never agreed to hold.

✌🏾 Stay solid.

MedXpressionz

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